NUSWhispers – Confession #28052
To #28025, well, it's good to have self confidence about your looks although honestly, you should have thought about your phrasing when you said: "I think I'm above average in the face department...." and "I'm someone you'd call cute". Most of the time, guys are attracted initially to looks and this attraction is maintained by interest in the girl's personality and character. I'm healthy weight, but I have shit low self-confidence and I think that's why guys don't get attracted to me (or I have a shit ugly face <-- LOL point) but anyways, the superficiality is not only restricted to guys. Some girls are superficial too.
Would you date a guy who's 100kg but has an above average face with cute boyish looks? If yes then okay lor~ I'm pretty sure in your life, you might find someone (like that) who likes you, but then you might have that double standards (you claim guys have).